In One Month I Will Be Married

In One Month I Will Be Married

Sex, too, is obviously extremely exciting, but I now look forward to sex because it is a part of intimacy, which is a broader, more important, more fundamental category. I am now beginning to understand that sex can stifle as much as reinforce intimacy. In short, I have learned to look forward to all the quiet in-between moments of married life that are not (necessarily) as electric but are more satisfyingly real.

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Compassion is Complicated

Compassion is Complicated

"I am left feeling very tired and wondering how much longer any space will be held open on this subject for genuine nuance and dialogue, or if perhaps that space has closed and it is only now becoming apparent to me. I am left wondering if anyone who holds any position with respect to this situation and the underlying questions about the relationship between the LGBTQ community & the church is willing to practice the basic charity of seeking to understand their opponent's argument at its best, even if their opponent fails to articulate it that way (intentionally or not)." 

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